Most of the time the focus is on ourselves, our pain, our emotions. Pulling positivity is so essential because as good people we want to encourage others. I’ve found on some of my worst days encouraging someone else takes my mind off (temporarily) my suffering. It’s important to remember, when you see great pictures off me on social media, I m still just surviving. My smile hides my anguish, and tears. I’m likely posting with 2-3 heating pads on each side. Fun times!