This subject is one that hits home to many of my chronic illness survivors. Apologies ahead of time for any strangeness in this post, I’ve been dealing with a massive headache and brain fog this week. Moving forward… the outside and and sometimes inside (close family) well wishers usually have a solution to most if not all of our ailments. Whether it’s a tea, cream, or aromatherapy oil the recommendations are endless. Here’s the truth, chronic illness is unique to each individual and has to be treated as such. What may work for you may not work for me. Being pushy is not being supportive. A nice blanket with a regular cup of hot tea and a good movie on a rough day, that’s supportive. The most supportive thing you can do- LISTEN. There are times we really need to talk about how we feel. You don’t have to tell us it’s going to be ok just that you will be there. That means more than you know.